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DEFINITELY!
says
TV presenter
Konnie Huq, 33, from London. 'Your twenties are the best time to make
your career mark,' she says.
"Career women get criticised all too often these
days. I really believe it is possible to have it all;
you've just got to grab it with both hands, and your twenties
are the perfect time to do that.
I spent my twenties carving
out my career. I was lucky to fall into a career I love, because
there's nothing worse than Monday-morning dread. But if you
don't find your dream job straight away, your twenties are the
perfect time to try a few careers on for size. Don't get me
wrong, all work and no play makes life dull, but who says you
can't do a bit of both? I might not have been papped falling out
of clubs drunk and flashing my bits, but it doesn't mean I
haven't been enjoying myself. Some of the best times have been
when I've been out with my Blue Peter colleagues. The hours were
long, but I loved it and still found time for fun.
And let's not forget the
other benefit that comes with working hard in your twenties -
money! There's no getting round it, being skint isn't fun. Who
wants to stress about where they go on holiday and whether they
can afford to split the bill? Now that we've hit the 'dreaded'
thirties, my friends and I can do so many things that we
wouldn't be able to do if we hadn't worked hard in our twenties.
Concentrating on my career
has also meant I've been able to get on the property ladder (I
bought my first pad in 2004). I love having the security of my
own place. I've got friends who spent their twenties travelling
and enjoying the good life (and yes, having an amazing time) but
now that they want to buy a flat they're find it difficult.
And for those people who
think career women lose out on the man front, I couldn't
disagree more. There's no reason concentrating on your career
should stop you having a love life. In fact, I think it can help
in that department. Most women meet their partners through work.
Plus, if you're focused and enjoying your job, you won't give of
any desperation vibes to men. I believe that if you find your
own way workwise first, chances are everything else will fall
into place."
Konnie presents Guinness
World Records Smashed, Sundays at 7pm on Sky1 and Sky1 HD. |
NO!
says
author Polly Courtney, 29, from London, who quit her high-flying City
job to become a writer. 'Your twenties are about fun, friends and
freedom,' she says.
"As a junior investment banker, I walked into the
office one cold, January morning to hear one of my
thirty-something colleagues groan into his cappuccino: ‘Another
year… and what have we achieved?’ I remember looking around at
the haggard, once-attractive faces and thinking,
I don’t want to be like you.
People still ask me why I walked away from the stability and
prestige of the City life to follow a dream and become a
novelist. It’s a fair question; the decision to quit my first
job was one of the hardest ones I have ever made. It wasn’t just
the monthly pay packet I was leaving behind; it was my
aspirations – my hopes of becoming a ‘high flyer’. When I told
friends that I was thinking of throwing it all in, they thought
I was crazy. ‘After only one year?’ they asked. ‘Couldn’t you
handle it?’
I could have handled it; I just didn’t want to turn into an
automaton in the process. When I left the square mile, my salary
dropped four-fold and I had to get used to explaining to people
that I didn’t actually have a proper ‘career’ – I was a
struggling author with a part-time job. At first, I used to lie
and pretend that I was still at the bank – it was easier. But
now I enjoy telling the truth. What I lost in material terms I
gained in new friendships, experiences and the freedom to pursue
my own goals.
I’m proud of the fact that I’m enjoying my twenties. I could have
been ‘sensible’ and stayed in the city, but I was making myself
miserable. In my new life, I get to do what I love doing –
writing – every day, I go on lots of cheap holidays and I see my
friends whenever I like. Occasionally, when I meet up with City
friends, I wonder how different my life would be if I had opted
to stay, like them. I imagine the large house and expensive car…
and then I remember my drained personality, my eroded
self-confidence and my unfulfilled dreams, and I know for sure
that I made the right decision.
Many women (and men) are so busy climbing their corporate career
ladders that they forget about the things that really matter
until, often, it’s too late. It’s a cliché, but some of my
hard-working friends are only just wondering why – with their
six-figure salaries and hundred-hour weeks – they are still
single, just as they want to start a family.
I’m not advocating that we fritter away our twenties or put our
social lives ahead of our careers; I believe that it’s possible
to balance the two. The key is to think about what really makes
you happy at the start of your career – and don’t be
afraid of setting off on a less-trodden path. If you follow the
herd and become a slave to your salary, it’s much harder to
change direction.
Be bold. Follow your dreams and enjoy your twenties."
Polly's new book,
The Day I
Died (£6.99, HarperCollins) is out now. |